The pick up game has been the same for ages and it probably always will be.
Some guys rise to the top and get the opportunity to have their way with as many gorgeous women as they desire, and some guys sit back with a cold beer in their hand, their eyes locked on a woman they will never approach… and they wonder why it has to be this way.
Nice guys don’t do well when it comes to picking up women. They really don’t. They get passed over and dumped on when they really should be the ones who end up getting the girl.
Logically, the nice guy would be the most deserving. Instead of just adding another notch onto their belt, they would actually appreciate and adore the woman.
So, why do THEY end up getting the worst of it, when they should getting the best of it?
It’s EVOLUTION baby!
In order for the human species to survive and thrive, there had to be guys who were willing to be aggressive. Guys that had to look at life as survival of the fittest and leave their emotions at the door of their cave. They had to be willing to take a risk in order to get a reward.
As long as they survived the risk, then of course, they ended up with the biggest prize. The most desired female.
Funny how we have evolved so much. We don’t have to hunt and gather food. We have cell phones and laptops and we have flat panel LCD televisions and we don’t have to really worry about survival of the fittest in terms of actually surviving.
Yet, all you have to do is head to the nearest bar where all of the hottest college girls go and you will see that same instinctive nature that helped us survive and thrive all these thousands of years.
And some things do not change.
The alpha male still ends up getting the biggest prize… in this case, the attention and adoration of the hottest, most desired women. And the nice guys, really the guys who play it safe… they get to look on and wish that they could be the alpha male and end up getting the girl.
There is only one way that you can change that if YOU are the nice guy who is always a spectator and never gets to play the pick up game.
You have to STOP trying to be so safe.
The first time that you go out to pick up a woman, it’s not going to be easy.
Hardly anyone ever gets to escape the nervousness, the awkwardness that you feel the first time that you muster up the courage to approach a woman so attractive, if you did get to hook up with her… she would make every other woman you’ve ever been with pale in comparison.
You have to EVOLVE, though, if you want to finish first.
And that is how the nice guy can go from last to first and become the alpha male.
- Chris Tyler
Picking up women does not have to be nearly as hard or as complicated or as technical as some guys try to make it out to be. I am giving away a FREE Report that will show you how to get started attracting, seducing and picking up women like it was EASY.
You can get it here: How to Attract and Seduce Women
Copyright (c) 2011- Chris Tyler All Rights Reserved.
